I am comfortable saying "no" when I need to
It can be difficult to say "no" sometimes. We may feel guilty or worry about disappointing others. But it's important to remember that saying "no" is a form of self-care. It allows us to prioritize our own needs and boundaries.
When you say "no" when you need to, you are setting healthy boundaries for yourself. You are communicating your limits and showing respect for your own time and energy. This can help prevent burnout and resentment in the long run.
It's important to remember that saying "no" doesn't make you a bad person. It's simply a way of taking care of yourself. You have the right to say "no" to things that don't align with your values or goals.
If you struggle with saying "no", try practicing in low-stakes situations. Start with small requests and work your way up to bigger ones. Remember that you don't owe anyone an explanation for your decision to say "no". Simply stating that you are unable to fulfill the request is enough.
Affirmations can also be helpful in building confidence around saying "no". Repeat to yourself "I am comfortable saying 'no' when I need to". Visualize yourself confidently declining a request and feeling good about your decision.
Remember that saying "no" is not a sign of weakness. It takes courage to prioritize your own needs and boundaries. By saying "no" when you need to, you are taking care of yourself and setting yourself up for success in the long run.