I am in control of my thoughts and emotions, and I choose to stay calm
It's easy to feel overwhelmed by our thoughts and emotions. Sometimes it feels like they have a life of their own, and we're just along for the ride. But the truth is, we have more control than we think. We can choose to stay calm, even in the midst of chaos.
When you feel yourself getting worked up, take a deep breath and repeat this affirmation to yourself: "I am in control of my thoughts and emotions, and I choose to stay calm". It may feel silly at first, but the more you say it, the more you'll believe it.
One of the keys to staying calm is to recognize when you're starting to feel anxious or stressed. Pay attention to your body - are your muscles tense? Is your heart racing? Once you've identified the physical symptoms of stress, you can take steps to calm yourself down. This might mean taking a few deep breaths, going for a walk, or simply taking a break from whatever is causing you stress.
Another way to stay calm is to practice mindfulness. This means being fully present in the moment, without judgment. When you're mindful, you're not worrying about the past or the future - you're simply experiencing the present moment. This can be a powerful tool for reducing stress and anxiety.
Remember, you are in control of your thoughts and emotions. You have the power to choose how you react to any situation. By repeating this affirmation to yourself and practicing mindfulness, you can stay calm and centered, no matter what life throws your way.