I am responsible for what I allow from others
It's easy to feel like we have no control over the actions of others. We may feel like we're at the mercy of their words and behaviors, and that we have no choice but to react to them. But the truth is, we are responsible for what we allow from others. This means that we have the power to set boundaries and decide what we will and will not tolerate in our lives.
When we say "I am responsible for what I allow from others" we are acknowledging that we have agency in our own lives. We are not passive recipients of other people's actions; we have the ability to choose how we respond to them. This can be a difficult concept to grasp, especially if we've spent a lot of time feeling like we're at the mercy of others. But once we start to internalize this affirmation, we can begin to take control of our lives in a new way.
One of the most important things to remember when it comes to this affirmation is that it's not about blaming ourselves for other people's actions. We can't control what other people do, but we can control how we respond to them. If someone is treating us poorly, we can choose to set boundaries and communicate our needs. If someone is constantly negative or critical, we can choose to limit our interactions with them. We don't have to accept behavior that is harmful or hurtful to us.
It's also important to remember that setting boundaries and taking responsibility for what we allow from others doesn't mean we have to do it alone. We can seek support from friends, family, or professionals if we need help navigating difficult situations. We don't have to shoulder the burden of other people's actions on our own.
Ultimately, the affirmation "I am responsible for what I allow from others" is about taking ownership of our lives. It's about recognizing that we have agency and the ability to make choices that are in our best interest. It's not always easy, but it's empowering to know that we have the power to shape our own lives.
