My worth is not dependent on my ability to conform to societal expectations or norms
It's easy to fall into the trap of believing that our worth is determined by how well we fit into society's expectations and norms. We're bombarded with messages telling us how we should look, act, and think, and it can be hard to resist the pressure to conform. But the truth is, our worth is not dependent on any of these things.
You are valuable simply because you exist. You don't need to change who you are or try to fit into a mold in order to be worthy of love and respect. Your worth is inherent, and nothing can take that away from you.
It's important to remember that societal expectations and norms are often arbitrary and ever-changing. What was considered "normal" or "acceptable" in the past may not be so today, and what's considered "normal" today may not be so in the future. Trying to keep up with these constantly shifting standards is a losing battle.
Instead of trying to conform to society's expectations, focus on being true to yourself. Embrace your unique qualities and quirks, and don't be afraid to stand out from the crowd. When you're authentic and genuine, you'll attract people who appreciate you for who you are, not who you're trying to be.
Repeat this affirmation to yourself whenever you feel like you're being pulled in different directions by societal pressures: "My worth is not dependent on my ability to conform to societal expectations or norms". Remind yourself that you are enough just as you are, and that your worth is not determined by anyone else's standards.